Jada Pinkett Smith confirme les rumeurs

Depuis un certain temps, il y a plusieurs rumeurs qui affirment que le célèbre couple Will Smith et Jada Pinkett Smith aurait fait d’un commun accord, un mariage ouvert.

Sur Facebook, où elle a l’habitude de toujours se confier, met en ligne une lettre afin de répondre à toutes ces rumeurs qui trainent.

La famille Smith a souvent fait l’objet de critiques concernant leurs rôles domestiques concernant leurs enfants Jaden Smith et Willow Smith. Cette est souvent scruter à la loupe concernant leur mariage.

Récemment, c’est un tabloid qui a remis ce sujet sur le tapis en invoquant la relation de Will et Jada Smith:

J’ai toujours dit à Will qu’il peut faire ce qu’il veutà condition que tu puisses te regarder dans la glace et te dire que c’est okay.

Ce serait des extraits de dires de Jada Pinkett Smith. Et à partir de ces déclarations, c’est devenu une escalada de rumeurs. Jada Pinkett Smith met les choses au point à travers une lettre mise en ligne sur Facebook:

“Open marriage?
Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards to what is happening in the world than whether I have an open marriage or not. I am addressing this issue because a very important subject has been born from discussions about my statement that may be worthy of addressing.

The statement I made in regard to, “Will can do whatever he wants,” has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist.

Do we believe loving someone means owning them? Do we believe that ownership is the reason someone should “behave”? Do we believe that all the expectations, conditions, and underlying threats of “you better act right or else” keep one honest and true? Do we believe that we can have meaningful relationships with people who have not defined nor live by the integrity of his or her higher self? What of unconditional love? Or does love look like, feel like, and operate as enslavement? Do we believe that the more control we put on someone the safer we are? What of TRUST and LOVE?

Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE…for us???

Here is how I will change my statement…Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship…this means we have a GROWN one.

Siempre,

J